Forever cloaked in embarrassment and shrouded with mystery, the women’s need for intimacy is rarely discussed publicly.
Unveiling all that’s taboo in today’s society is much up the Pune365 street; we decided to investigate the joys of intimacy and have Puneite’s reveal their darkest desires..
Elucidating the importance of building up to the moment, Suchi Vaid, (22) a homemaker says, “Relentless pounding just doesn’t float my boat. Women need foreplay! I wish they would open a school to educate men about this. I mean, it helps us finish that much sooner and takes us to heaven in a whole new way.”
Shedding light on the subject from a male perspective is Shivam Rautal, (30) a Social Media Manager. “The problem is, when by some miracle I succeed in stumbling into her lady parts, she expects perfection. I don’t want to sound like a child, seeking guidance. I do want to please my partner though, which presents the eternal conundrum.
Maithili Rashna, (31) an occupational therapist, tells us about the man who had a magic touch. “After several episodes of untainted ecstasy, I wondered where he’d learnt his precision. After insistent probing on my part, he finally relented.
“His answered shocked me enough to end the relationship. Apparently, his days of childhood exploration with his sister had duly educated him. Ugh,” she shudders vowing never to date a Frenchman again.
Exhibiting zero tact, Surein Oswal, (24) a management trainee declares that a partner’s satisfaction is of little consequence to him. “Ultimately, it’s my freight train. As long as she’s sufficiently wowed by the length of my wagon, how does the end result matter?” he questions clueless.
“I fake it a lot,” reveals Shalini Donga a 29-year-old party planner. “I wouldn’t like to ideally, but the man just won’t stop trying! His poor technique has me exhausted. Now I just believe, ‘God helps those who help themselves’.
Quiz her as to why she doesn’t communicate her dissatisfaction to her partner and Shalini explains, “Guys are just so touchy about this! I wish I could give him a tutorial on the right technique without him sulking or taking offence. But, this isn’t the first partner I’ve encountered this problem with,” she explains.
“Eventually, you’ve got to accept your partner for the person they are not expect them to be love Gods like Eros,” she counsels wisely.
#Respondent names changed to protect their individual privacy. All views expressed are those of the individual respondents.
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