Why Do Married Men Flirt With Single Women?

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A recent study revealed that married men tend to flirt more with single women.

Flirting after marriage is very common, and often it is seen that married men are more attracted to single women. There are several reasons for this. While in some cases it is only restricted to healthy flirting, some men may engage in flirting that crosses the border.

Flirting is often defined as a manifestation of playfully expressing your sexual attraction to someone you may or may not be interested in.

We asked Puneites this question and here is what they said:

“I have always been a flirt. The fact is I love it.  I just like having flirty conversations playful ones, not overtly sexual or anything.” says Neel Jadhav, Techie

” My wife knows about it, Initially she hated it , but later she remembered why she fell in love with me and the fact that i will never change.”

My wife trusts me enough to know I won’t cross the line, and trust me that I won’t cross that. I’ve been with her on-and-off for something like four years, and I’ve never gone over the line adds, Neel

“These married men should probably be spending time in helping their child with their homework.” says Preeti Sharma, Choreographer.

I am an independent woman, can afford to pay my own bills. There are so many single men who can give me what I want.

Instead of investing my time with a man who is already committed, I would much rather find and meet somebody I can have a committed relationship with. She adds.

“I can give you everything you want! How generous of you! I guess you mean, you can give me your divided time, pay for a few dinners and drinks and satisfy me sexually as well. Thanks, but I am happy single.” says Crystal ,a business developer.

Yes, I am single, but I am not interested. We have better options among singles for casual sex why would we prefer a married man?

“So please behave yourselves and stay within your boundaries. Have some respect for us, as well as the sanctity of the institution you have chosen to be a part of.

Please don’t test your marriage and our tolerance”, Crystal adds.

I am fond of dark chocolate ever since I was a kid, so I usually hit the bar to look for some dark chocolate for the night, says Kavita Singh, Gym trainer.

Flirting is healthy, and it doesn’t matter whether your married or not.

I prefer married men’s because it’s safe to flirt with them. I know that they won’t leave their wives and put a marriage at risk for just one night.

Honestly, everything leads to only one thing. So why only boys should have fun!

It is ok to have a fling! I do that all the time. How else can you make your life interesting! says Saurabh Rathod, who has been married for the past 8 years and thinks that his wife must be doing the same thing with other men.

Honestly, there is nothing wrong as far as you don’t tell each other.  How long can you eat daal chawal? Everybody wants to eat biryani.

I think women, especially single girls prefer married men because we are experienced and they know we can give them all the loving they need.

We have more patience to deal with them and provide them with emotional security, he adds.

Ankita Malekar

Ankita Malekar

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